Your generation sucks. Or so I’ve been told. You are self-centered, recognition-seeking, gadget-addicted, fame-loving, loyalty-free, entitled, unfocused, and brash. On a good day.
Or so I’ve been told.
While you may still be in college, much of your generation is entering the workplace. A recent article revealed that people believe you are flakes (it's an old term, you may need to Google it). You like to hit the exit at 4:59:59 each day. Work is something you do when you’re ready for a break from Facebook.
Our society once believed in you as a generation, but it seems like every article, piece of research, TV show, and old man with a pipe has turned against you. I cannot remember the last thing I read or saw that said your work or lifestyle habits were good.
Generational warfare is nothing new, and now the cross-hairs are on you. It’s your turn to be the recipient of the “these kids today” card. Everyone thinks you have it easier than they did; everyone thinks you don’t know what real struggle is about; everyone thinks you are going to fail in the “real world.”
You know what? They said the same thing about my generation. And my parents’ generation. And their parents’ generation.
To be honest - you sometimes make it very easy to target you. It’s not as though you haven’t provided some ammunition.
Too many of you read, retweet, and thereby support juvenile websites like Total Frat Move. I see what they post, and what you then forward on, imagine your guffaws, and want to shout into the computer: “grow up for God’s sake!”
I worry that it’s too easy for you to sacrifice what you believe in for a few laughs.
I worry that you are too concerned about image. It’s okay to be want to be liked, and want to appear confident and strong. However, I’m concerned that you are in love with the ideas of being a good person and living a life of integrity, but forget that it’s really your actions and behaviors that create these things. I'd like you to trade in your awareness wristband for a shovel every once in a while.
But, you know what...you’re young and these things are probably natural for younger people. I was certainly guilty of many of them. You’re still trying to figure it all out (and frankly, so am I).
I wonder sometimes if the heat that a generation applies on the one that follows is really an expression of fear. We are afraid of the challenges our world (or our piece of the world) is dealing with, and we realize that our generation has done little to address them. And so, we lift the gigantic monkey off of our shoulders and place him on yours. He's mean and angry. You’re young and idealistic. Clearly you are the generation that will save us!
Once you have expectations that high - it’s no wonder the criticisms soon follow. You may be the “savior” generation, but for right now, all you can be is young, appropriately concerned about your own self-interests, and prone to the same mistakes we all have made. And for some reason, we now lack the tolerance for it. We instead channel our inner Clint Eastwood and mutter "these kids today" under our breath.
I hate to say it - but I feel like we’re already looking past your generation to the next one; the one that is presently preoccupied with matchbox cars and squinkies. Maybe they are the ones who will bring about a renaissance of inventions and ideas that will make our world better. Maybe they will finally be the ones to save our public schools. Maybe they will be the ones who stop tolerating rap lyrics, websites, or celebrities that degrade women.
We need to solve chronic poverty. We need to defend civil rights. We need to extend a helping hand. We need to learn to be neighborly again. There are so many things we need to do, and it seems like people have already given up on your generation. They feel you’ll be too busy updating your Facebook status to give a damn.
It's unfair, but you can prove 'em wrong.
What about fraternity life? Which generation will actually stop hazing? Which generation will stand up and say “ENOUGH” to the “isms” we deal with? Will we ever see a generation that no longer tolerates the fraternity experience being defined by alcohol? Who will finally solve the issues that have been plaguing Greek life for over a century?
I know many of you. I worked with many of you. I think you can do it. It's your time, and it's our fault for looking past you. Just yesterday, I read an article about a fraternity planning a “Civic Leadership” week. And another who organized a campus-wide campaign to end the use of the word “retarded.” That's powerful stuff.
But, you need to do more (we all do). And you can. This can be the start of an era that changes everything. Then, when someone says "these kids today" you can reply “yeah, these kids today are getting it done.”
Let them keep complaining about you. Fight back with acts of significance.
The great singer Tom Petty (you’re going to have to Google him also) once sang...”I won’t back down, no I won’t back down. You could stand me up at the gates of hell, but I won’t back down.” It's classic rock for you, but may I suggest that as your anthem.
There are lots of people out there who don’t want to believe in you. Not me. I still believe in these kids today.
An Old Guy (who's going to be there with you)