A woman saw three men laying bricks…I believe that in life, how you frame your experiences determines how you live them.
She approached the first and asked, "What are you doing?"
Annoyed, the first man answered, "What does it look like I’m doing? I’m laying bricks!"
She walked over to the second bricklayer and asked the same question.
The second man responded, "Oh, I’m making a wall."
She asked the third bricklayer the same question, "What are you doing?"
The third looked up, smiled and said, "I’m building a castle."
If you believe you are laying bricks, then that’s what you will do. And that’s the limited experience you will face when you get out of bed each morning.
And if you believe your fraternity or sorority is just another extracurricular activity or club, then that’s all it will be. All it can be.
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